Breaking Through The Wonder Wall and Dropping the Victim Mindset With Nick Pags
Season 1 | Episode 35
In this episode, growth mindset expert and behavioral changes specialist, Nick Pags gives us a refreshingly simple perspective of looking at how we get to have a breakthrough by breaking the protection of our wonder walls and dropping the victim mindset.
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Show Notes:
There are a thousand ways to break down the elements of breakthrough or the absence of it. In our past episodes, we have sought answers from dozens of coaches, authors, and thought leaders about how they think people can achieve breakthroughs to live the life they say they want to have.
In this episode, we have the pleasure of doing a deep dive on why it’s so difficult for people to cross the road from who they’ve become to who they want to be. Nick Pags drives home a clear point why people hold on to their current situation. You’ll be surprised the reason is “wildly simple.” People tend to protect themselves from the unknown, from the uncertain.
More of these as you tune in to this week’s episode with our guest, Growth Mindset Expert, Certified Behavioral Change Specialist, and Inspirational Live Coach, Nick Pags. Stay with us as Nick spills the beans on how he inspires his students to become who they want to be or better yet, limitless.
This episode is like a bag of tools and methods you can use to step out of your comfort zone and discover what’s possible.
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These are some highlights you shouldn’t miss:
01:33 - How people can achieve breakthroughs so they can live the life they want.
03:14 - The lies that people tell to themselves: The victim vs. the victor mindset
11:51 - Stepping out the Wonder Wall: From “I wonder” to “what if I?”
14:37 - What is Project Limitless?
17:12 - The survival mechanism that keeps our freedom inside the wonder wall.
23:13 - No secret sauce! Just ABC - “acting boldly consistently.”
26:23 - Releasing the resistance and playing it differently to see what’s possible
29:17 - What a healthier, more abundant, and loving relationship with time can do.
33:32 - How the autonomic nervous system influences our decision-making.
39:59 - Stop, drop, and roll: Breaking the protected zone thinking pattern.
46:59 - How NuCalm works
49:15 - Why hacking strips off the essence of the process of Stop, drop, and roll.
54:37 - The logic that explains why we don’t need fast or instant change.
57:55 - A reason to celebrate and have some grace with yourself.
1:00:19 - Nick’s journey into coaching.
Episode Challenge: 33:32
This week, we challenge you to Stop, Drop, and Roll
Here’s a quick background:
In our brains, there exists a subconscious desire to go a different way, think of what if’s, what could be possible, or what could be waiting for us on the other side. But we almost automatically choose to do what we’ve always done. We choose to go in the same direction.
Why? Because it's our autonomic nervous system that tells us not to change course. It’s not safe. You’ve always gone this way. Even if that course never gets us to who we want to become, we go with it. As Nick Pags puts it -
“We rather dance with the devil that we know than the devil that we don't.”
Here’s how you’ll do it-
This is where we STOP and ask ourselves the question, “ Is this a decision that's aligned with who I want to be? And the life I want to live?” We begin to take radical ownership and take responsibility for who we want to be.
By not allowing tons of excuses to get in the way, we DROP our ego, the protection, the safety and comfort zone, the victim mindset, the resistance to change, and simply allow ourselves to the possibilities.
Only by dropping those blocks, can we then ROLL with a new decision and a new experience.
It may take you some time to make it because change is uncomfortable. But if you resolve to ABC -“act boldly consistently,” the more you make decisions that are aligned with the person you want to be, the more you take that simple action, the more your life is a byproduct of that experience, and the more you start to see that your world is now built on a foundation of not protection, but abundant aligned choices.
What is it with your current situation that you want to stop and drop, so you can roll to a new you? Start by telling us about it and don’t forget to act boldly consistently!
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About the Guest:
Nick Pags is a Growth Mindset Expert, Certified Behavioral Change Specialist and Inspirational Live Coach, who understands the desire to change, why you don’t, and the mindset shifts needed to find success in any area of your life.
By applying the motivational skills he’s used as one of NYC’s top personal trainers and group fitness leaders to his behavioral change training, Nick inspired thousands of individuals - from peers in the coaching space to elite C-Suite executives – to unlock their potential.
He combines a unique mix of high-energy coaching and empathetic listening which naturally create a space for self-discovery that is as profound and exciting.
Throughout his private and group coaching, live events and corporate speaking, Nick affords his clients the opportunity to break through their old ways of being, rewrite the mental patterns that don’t serve them, and truly embrace their limitless potential to live out their most abundant lives.
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Claudine Chiarmonte, Marc Chiaramonte, Nick Chiarmonte, Rachel Mutuc, Nick Pags
